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re bloody time w............... 11/15/2003
The more I read this site.....
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I agree , I think people are playing games here, and not the
ones we want!!!
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O n e comment about lying dom men, why would you lie!?
say you own a house, rich, who cares, I'm dominate and
been that way for many years, I don't own shit. Who cares,
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Sure I got a job, place to live, whatever!! ...
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What' wrong with talking about masturbating?!?!? 11/9/2003
I don't get it. Well, let me start form the beginning.
My g/f and I have been going out for almost 5 years now, and
we're both in our early 20's. The other night started
out fine, with me sending her a few emails (since she's
away at school) with porno pics in them. She requested ones
with more guys than girls. (MFM) So who am I to say no to that!
I also wrote that she should call my ...
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poor taste is not gender specific 11/5/2003
i have looked at a lot of profiles on this site and i am convince
that the people griping about all those "dick pics"
are absolutely right. come on guys, if you don't have
any more to offer than a 'dick' you can't have
a lot of confidence in your self - and no one else should either.
you are the best judge of your best qualities!
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beyond that, there are an awful lot of ...
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OK Alt.com I dare you to publish this rant 10/30/2003
What gives Alt.com? You stop us standard members from seeing
profiles of people we might be interested in, all as a disguise
for just trying to get money out of us. Well it won't
work with me, firstly I can't afford to subscribe and
secondly I don't need to. I don't need to pay you
in order to meet people, and now I'm not going to feel
safe with anyone on this site simply because I can't ...
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157 Votes
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From a Dom to all the "How do I do that?"s 10/23/2003
First off, let Me give you a little background information
so that you know that I know what I'm talking about here:
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1. I went to school for psychology and specialized in Sex
Therapy and Relationship Counseling.
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2. I've been a successful IRL Dom for several years
w/the same sub for three years. W/we have a VERY open and
public relationship. My collar adorns ...
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Response to: Rachel's wannabe rant 10/17/2003
A wannabe is one who pretends but who will never actually
BE what it pretends. This has nothing to do with being new
and searching.
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The difference is sincerity.
<br>
A person can be new to the Lifestyle and completely inexperienced,
but if his or her heart is sincere in the desire, then that
person is just as real as someone who has 20 years of bdsm
Lifestyle ...
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29 Votes
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Is there a photo page for women to choose from? 10/14/2003
How many people on here have looked at a woman's profile
and had erotic photo's shown, but then day's later
find the same photo's on another woman's profile?
I have several time's. My bitch here is that wannabe's
take photo's from whatever they find them in and post
them as their own. One in Louisiana, then the same in Tennessee,
with different women? Give me a break, is there a photo lab ...
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129 Views,
31 Votes
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to all the "REAL" Doms/Regarding "wannabes" 10/14/2003
I was just told today that wannabes are bad and there is no
truth in cyber exploration of eroticism. Well, let me explain:
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1) Everyone has to start out somewhere and safety is a HUGE
issue in the bdsm scene. Cyber exploration is a safe and
good way to learn.
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2) A wannabe is someone looking for information, acceptance,
a mentor maybe. Don't we all start out ...
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28 Votes
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Learn to SPELL! 10/10/2003
Okay, people. You can hate my guts and call me a snob all you
want, but learn to spell already! Break out the School House
Rock tapes, and review your basic grammar!!! Every time
I venture onto this site, I am appalled by the lack of spelling
and grammatical skills. I’ve read some profiles that would
have been ridiculed by a second grader! And some of these
articles and questions in ...
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55 Votes
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bully's in the chatrooms 10/8/2003
I have noticed reciently, not being very new on here how
people gang up on other people in the room. It kinda remeinded
me of vultures when I have seen it happen on one or teo occasions.
FIrst one person will be in a room all by themself then you
will notice the room start to fill up slowly but surely that
is when you know that something is wrong then next thing
you know there is a room ...
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18 Votes
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Regarding: Newbie searching for the 'Rules' 9/16/2003
I see this sassy sub has left quite a challenge to the “iron
fisted; no exceptions to the rules” Doms.
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Everyone one us was a newbies at one time. True, many are
arrogant, but really, who wants association with such
types anyway? Personally, I’ve found that the arrogant
ones usually have something to hide, quite often their
own inadequacies...If you find yourself ...
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17 Votes
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Submissive does not mean doormat 9/4/2003
I'd like to take a moment to point out one thing that
should be painfully obvious to some, and I use the term loosely,
'dominants' cruising through alt.
Just because someone has submissive or slave on their name,
or profile. Does not mean that they are YOUR submissive
or slave.
I'm a slave.
I have a Master in real life, whom I live with.
My Profile very clearly states what I am ...
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49 Votes
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Re: Dominant vs. Dominate 8/5/2003
Thank you. While we're on the subject how about you're
vs. your? If you're unsure what the difference is look
it up in your dictionary.
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14 Votes
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Newbie searching for the 'Rules' 7/27/2003
I am writing this because I am a newbie and this article is
addresed to the 'veterans' of this lifestyle.
Please, since I am new, give me a list of expectations , demands
and the specific role I am to fulfill for a Dom. Not knowing
these rules, I would need a specific list, to make sure that
this lifestyle is for me. That way, I do not waste anyone's
time or my own. Where are these ...
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29 Votes
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Proverbs from a very foolishly wise man 6/26/2003
Drinking tequila is a very good way to mistakenly misplace
your fear of nudity.
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Yoga is spiritual masterbation
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One who is one with themselves can indefinately count to
1
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You don't know how good your life is until your stranded
on the the side of the freeway with a flat tire. No spare,
no cell phone, No toilet paper and a case of super soaker ...
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Newbies 4/1/2003
I'd like to have a word with some of the Doms/tops and
so called masters of this site about new submissives. Now
Im not talking about new, as in ive had a master before, and
the well shes new to me brigade. Im talking about the band
new submissives, the Ive thought about it and want to try
it.
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I have for sometime now, been chatting with a newbie. The
poor girl has been ...
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138 Votes
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Self centered, my ass! 3/30/2003
I can't begin to tell you about the number of articles
in here regarding BBW's and thinner women. And as I
read them I get more and more irritated. Who says all BBW's
are easier to get along with, are less stuck up, are funnier??
Folks, that is about the biggest generalization I've
ever heard! And what about the petite girls who have to read
about how they're snobby, narssicistic, vain, ...
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52 Votes
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Response to fat subs 3/30/2003
Why is everyone giving this poor person such a hard time??
At least he's being honest. Some people aren't
attracted to larger people. Just like some aren't
attracted to thinner people, blondes or whatever! I bet
if he were a female complaining about a man who openly admits
that all he wants are one nighters, everyone would be cheering
from the rafters! This is silly! He's not even saying ...
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39 Votes
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answer to "doing the right thing" 3/22/2003
Some get upset because their letters aren't answered.
We get upset when some of you don't bother to read requirements
and write anyway. Or those who read and write and think they
qualify for an "exception". Those of us who
take the time to do a detailed profile usually mean what
we say we are looking for. ~~ Pay attention to profiles before
writing and save yourself some grief!
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25 Votes
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I want to meet you... not your parts! 2/11/2003
I am a submissive who posted an ad here. I am so darn tired
of receiving pictures of penises I could scream! It's vulgar
and offensive. I don't want a close up and personal view
of your privates until well after introductions have been
made. And no, I don't want to see your last girlfriend hogtied
on the floor. There is a huge difference between sensual
and vulgar. The difference is ...
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48 Votes
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What kind of line is that? 2/10/2003
Just a quick gripe that hopefully most of the men on this
site will read ( I hate to categorize, but it Has been ALL
men) Could you please try to come up with a better pick up
line than "I'm gonna your ass" or "Like to eat shit?"
Maybe I would if you could carry on a decent human conversation
at the neanderthal level first. At least pretend that you
read my profile and that you are not ...
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58 Votes
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A Dom Awakens... 1/26/2003
Pardon me for posting this here but my thought is that the
people who feel the need to rant are probably the ones who
genuinely care about the life that this site is about---and
I need a little advice from my tribe. I’ve only recently
begun to discover that my drives, my passions---what,
and who I am -- make sense in the context of the BDSM life.
This is not something that I am ...
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19 Votes
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Where has common courtesy gone? 1/25/2003
There seems to be a lack of courtesy around - I am speaking
about Fem Dommes. I know they probably get alot of messages
from people that are not sited in one way or another. But
why is it so difficult not to be polite and answer? The answer
could be something very simple - I dont have to set out examples,
everyone can think of one (just try applying for a job and
you'll get the idea ...
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48 Votes
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Are there no real relocatable male submissives on this planet? 10/23/2002
With the huge number of male subs/slaves who want to belong
to a true-life, non-Pro, long time Lady of Power, you'd
think it would be easy to find the "perfect one".
<br>
But if their profile sounds wonderful, then they can't
relocate to the Great Southwest. If they CAN, they might
be allergic to cats. Then there are the "Twilight Zoners"
- those creeps who start a ...
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26 Votes
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RE: why against young people 8/20/2002
i think the reason why so many Dommes are looking for older
men is because it's a better chance for them to get more "generous"
men (i.e. - more money)...You would think in the modern
era this wouldn't matter but it still does, believe me.
As a dominant male, I would love to ask for tribute from rich
ladies in exchange for mastery over them, but that is a ridiculous
fantasy. The fact that ...
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18 Votes
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It doesn't really matter anymore 8/18/2002
I am going to commit the cardinal sin of dating and reveal
that i am not perfect, not even close (bad for a "Dom"). It
doesn't matter anymore. I don't expect any nice women to
respond to my profile, or to me, or anything I say. It has
gotten to the point, in America, that people don't know
what they want anymore. All you ladies who are out there,
if you are, ask yourselves this: Am I ...
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31 Votes
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RE Pay for Play 8/4/2002
Perhaps Im missing something here, but I was on the understanding
that the whole scene was about people with desires and needs
and wanting to find some channel to express them with people
who have similar needs and desires. A true symbiotic relationship.
<br>
You rant about snowmobiles and the cost, surely the reason
you have your playthings is because you like to play with
them, ...
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83 Votes
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What am I doing wrong 7/10/2002
I've used Alt several times and each time I've tried to be
honest with myself but I don't get any replys. Right now
I feel like a web site reject. I wish I could find someone
who's real. By that I mean someone who isn't going to reply
and say that they're interested in me and ask me to visit
some pay site to view their pictures. And another thing
a lot of females who have ads on this site ...
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60 Votes
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Pay for play ? Get real Guys!!!!!!! 5/9/2002
You contact a Mistress to get your needs fulfilled. Submission
is indeed a gift that is priceless however a token towards
toys and maintenance is not asking a lot. It is not that you
want to take this person to dinner and or a date per say, it
is to get yourLet me put it in simple talk for you here okay?
I buy the Snowmobile, I pay for the insurance and the trailer
to move it. I buy the ...
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332 Votes
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Cheap Dominants 9/3/2001
I have only known about the lifestyle for 2 1/2 years & find
it very intriguing & erotic. But the more people whom I meet
who call themselves dominants, the more disillusioned
I am becoming. The ones I've met seem to want the sub to pay
for everything. And if that is how dominants work, then
you may keep your lifestyle. I am a true submissive, not
a doormat. Dominanats have no right to ...
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162 Views,
124 Votes
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