|
Hard Limits, a submissive's right 7/23/2005
I grow weary of defending my hard limits. Every time I read
an article or hear a Dom/me expound on the belief that a submissive
person should allow the Dom/me to 'help' with
these limits, my anger flares. I have yet to read an article
by a Dom/me declaring that they should work on expanding
experiences that they have no interest in!
<br>
Some Dominants believe that they are ...
1 Comments,
59 Views,
27 Votes
,7.24 Score
|
|
Rant- LIARS! 7/18/2005
To preface; I was very honest in my profile. I put up many
pictures, I answered all the questions, everything. Why
is it that everyone I've met of any of thse damn sites
has lied about something important? Most of the time, it's
been about their body type. I don't mean to be shallow,
but it's not a happy thing when somoene says they're
"athletic", then they're about 100 lbs. ...
7 Comments,
204 Views,
6 Votes
,1.66 Score
|
|
Talking Big 7/17/2005
i'm sure everyone has had this problem but i want to
bitch anyway!
i hate it when i meet someone here, chat for a while, exchange
email, IM, etc, plan a meeting...and get me all worked up...finally
give out my phone number and hope for a call and then NOTHING.
4 Comments,
317 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score
|
|
Removing old listings 7/17/2005
There should be some kind of time limit, where if you haven't
logged on in say, 3 months, your profile should be dropped.
You get these "love dog" matches, only to see
that most of the people haven't been on in months, and
sometimes years.
I know it looks good for "ALT" to say we have millions
of members, but come on. Most of the profiles are old and
out dated.
You don't include the ...
4 Comments,
179 Views,
12 Votes
,6.69 Score
|
|
Annoying Timewasters!!!!! 7/14/2005
What is wrong with some people!!! This guy got in touch a
few weeks ago. He knows I am a sub but kept pestering me to
use and abuse him. Now I do have a sadistic side so at last
relented and thought why not? Someone that pathetic and
desperate would benefit from my abuse. Was getting into
it and we arranged to meet last Sat. I asked him did he prefer
Fri as I was busy but he said no, Sat ...
2 Comments,
295 Views,
11 Votes
,5.78 Score
|
|
munch attire My opinion 7/14/2005
Question and comment
<br>
pertaining to what is, or should be acceptable at a munch/vanilla
bar?
<br>
I realize that munches are not a place for fet attire...
though I have often seen subs in a collar or Dom/mes in a nice
corset or leather pants/skirt, does no fet attire mean
one can not go in the clothing they feel comfortable in outside
of work and fetish events if it ...
1 Comments,
113 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
|
|
sorry if this goes on 7/9/2005
I dont really no where to start. Maybe i just need to let off
steam.I have recently been through a bit of ahard time with
my master/lover. And over the last few weeks we had started
to rebuild our relationship. And i really thoguth we was
getting back on track. I started to belive in him again to
trust what he said, to feel he cared has he said he did.
Then i find out hes not all i ...
4 Comments,
250 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score
|
|
honesty 7/7/2005
well yes I'm ranting and raving every guy seems older
than me but never honest with me well one and hes married.
Really if i try to look for a good time they lie and say they
r when i want to take it farther they bitch. Then if I want
to get serious then they want no strings. Not sure I qutie
understand older guys but why don't they try at least
to be honest then having a yo yo in front of ...
2 Comments,
170 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
|
|
Banned Words 7/6/2005
I tried to post in a group. A group I started and got the message
that the post contained banned words!
<br>
I can't imagine what words would be banned on this site!
Does anyone know what they are?
Can you tell me on some sort of code? Might not be able to use
them in a reply either.
2 Comments,
121 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
|
|
Responses 6/24/2005
I have only made 2 responses in the magazine articles (actually
3, as I hit the submit button twice on one) but each time a
message reads "delete entire response". I
would like to know what gives? I don't see that message
on anyone elses !!
2 Comments,
104 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
|
|
Explaining the infamous Cock Shots 6/9/2005
I detest the practice as much as the next guy (and feel for
the gals), but I'm getting tired of people exclaiming
bewilderment at all the faceless cock shots on ALT.
<br>
Hello!
<br>
Believe it or not, dungeon dwellers, most people who have
an appreciation for BDSM still need to go to work, raise
, and get on with thir vanilla lives and responsibilities.
<br>
...
5 Comments,
271 Views,
14 Votes
,2.02 Score
|
|
So far 6/2/2005
Ive been on this site for about 5 years now, and have still
to meet a soul!. I am looking for a loving relationship with
a Domme but this somehow doesnt seem likely as the vast majority
of ads here are offering a service in exchange for money,
any way Im not just stuck on the net I also go to munches, they
are ok and Ive met some nice freindly people however there
are never any Dommes ...
2 Comments,
208 Views,
7 Votes
,1.26 Score
|
|
Offhand remark is still pissing me off 5/28/2005
Okay, so I ranted mildly in my post to this advice question,
but it's still under my skin, and pissing me off. Some
chick was asking about wearing priest and nun costumes
in sex play. Stating that she wasn't a Christian, she
asked if it would be sacrilegious and then had to drop in
a line about if priests are doing it to boys, why can't
I.
<br>
What a stupid, ignorant, feeble ...
5 Comments,
378 Views,
12 Votes
,6.51 Score
|
|
Dodgy 5/28/2005
Recently I decided to bother to message some Dommes. I looked
for the few that seemed genuine and didnt want to ream you
out of money. I fully read their profiles and responded
in a good way not breaking any of the rules or doing any of
the off putting cliches.
<br>
Anyway after messaging about 10 of them all with different
messages relating to their profiles I got 0 responses. ...
13 Comments,
416 Views,
3 Votes
|
|
Is This Submission? 5/23/2005
How many of you 'real' Doms/Dommes have had this happen.
You have finally met what you think is a real submissive.
You get to test out all those knots you've been practicing,
all those terrific scenes that you've been running through
your head, and all your equipment is in top notch condition
and ready to go. The day finally comes for your first meeting
only to find out that the 'so called ...
4 Comments,
96 Views,
20 Votes
,7.46 Score
|
|
waiting for responses 5/21/2005
Why are most Doms / Domms rude? They don't even bother
to respond, even when you are willing to service them in
ways you would never normaly do. Still waiting to break
my cheery.
7 Comments,
321 Views,
14 Votes
|
|
Lose the L337 Speak!!! 5/17/2005
How many times has this happened to you:
someone winked at you, you look at their profile, &
their picture, & you decide you're interested.
You wink back.
They e-mail you & instead of writing coherently they
constantly use "U" instead of typing out "YOU",
"R" instead of "ARE", "2"
instead of "TO/TOO" etc etc etc
<br>
<br>
Do you have ANY idea how annoying that is?
...
6 Comments,
391 Views,
20 Votes
,5.42 Score
|
|
Topping from the bottom 5/15/2005
"Topping from the bottom." I came across this
phrase not too long ago and was floored by its simplistic
accuracy. It sums up what I found to be the mindset of so many
of the "subs" out there. Though most commonly
practiced by males who proclaim to be sub but really want
nothing more than a beautiful woman to either tell them
how to fuck her or for her to stick something in their asses, ...
8 Comments,
417 Views,
18 Votes
,0.53 Score
|
|
Save us from ourselves Part2 5/13/2005
To the ones who have bothered to reply.
<br>
I am not full of myself. I just believe that having my say
(good or bad) is my right. Most of us live in a place where
freedom of speech is accepted!
To the one who chooses to insult me for airing my feelings,
you are the kind of person i am on about. You hide faceless
behind a computer terminal and send insults and tell me
that my ...
2 Comments,
179 Views,
7 Votes
,0.49 Score
|
|
Unwanted attention 5/11/2005
Why is it when you painstakenly put all your details into
your profile you will always get the person who doesn't
fit your criteria trying to hit on you.
<br>
I have had a couple of unwanted admirers and I know its quite
flattering but do they just look at your picture and think
"hey, I wanna piece of that."
<br>
I know you can block these people but I am more ...
4 Comments,
204 Views,
9 Votes
,5.56 Score
|
|
Save us from ourselves. 5/11/2005
Hi everyone who reads this. I have just read a couple of rants
and they all appear to be the same. Fakers and collectors
who are on this site advertising themselves as things they
can only read about.
How has the once glorious and secrative world of BDSM become
a haven for freaks, sickos, pretenders, wannabes, collectors
and dreamers?
Well I beleive it is because of the internet. Whilst ...
2 Comments,
188 Views,
7 Votes
|
|
Psychpathic Subs - Daniel's Disaster 5/8/2005
This one comes from a Dom acquaintance of mine. I happened
to run into him recently at a local mall. It had been quite
a while since we had last seen each other, so we headed for
the food court to have lunch and chat. We settled in at a table,
caught up for a bit and then he told me this story. Thinking
back on it a few days later, it occurred to me that this tale
from the Darkside had ...
4 Comments,
269 Views,
42 Votes
,8.16 Score
|
|
With regards to 'knew_me' 4/29/2005
Its true I also find this, male subs need to learn that they
have one of the most pointless sexualities in the world
as much of the time it eats your wallet and has no real arms
to hold you in. Move on, dont give a shit and get on with your
life, dont waste it worrying and feeling bad, just compartmentalize
your sexuality in your wanking hand, so the fuck what?
5 Comments,
236 Views,
15 Votes
|
|
Advice responces 4/17/2005
I hve posted a few questions when i was looking for an item
or advice on subjuect that my partner and I had intrest in
but no knowledge or experience. I have gotten alot great
advice but now I'm about to give some.
<br>
When you see an advice request posted that is talking about
something that you don't know anything about......
KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT.
<br>
I posted ...
7 Comments,
209 Views,
13 Votes
,1.97 Score
|
|
You want it all? 4/12/2005
Help me understand this... a person is married and post
a profile looking for partners that will give their mind,
body and soul to them. The profiler wants a "soul mate."
Hello, shouldn't that be your spouse.
<br>
I understand fulfilling fantansies, experimenting with
others, enjoying your kink with another because it isn't
that of your spouse, but don't bull shit people by ...
6 Comments,
258 Views,
15 Votes
,5.58 Score
|
|
Task of Finding a Gift. 4/11/2005
I never thought I would be writing anything so open online,
I tend to be much more reserved with my thoughts and feelings
then to just put them up for all to read. However, I find myself
in a bit of a dilemma and thought I would share with the world.
Perhaps in sharing I can find what it is I am seeking and fulfill
my latest task. Daddy has given me until Sunday to find Him
a gift for Him ...
7 Comments,
301 Views,
10 Votes
|
|
Rejected Photos 4/6/2005
Ever wonder why you had a profile photo rejected but never
been able to find out why? It would be, of course, because
those who screen the photos are so exacting in their work
that, if they have the slighest suspicion that your photo
may not be of you, they will reject it, right? Not!!!!!!
I just submitted the photo on the profile of "cleeburke"
for review. It is the mugshot of Nick Nolte ...
7 Comments,
358 Views,
8 Votes
,4.87 Score
|
|
not being able to view the basic profile. 3/30/2005
i have noticed that i am unable to read some peoples profiles.
not all of them mind you just some. even some of the profiles
of people who have emailed me. is there some kind of block
that members choose to keep their profiles from being viewed
besides turning them off?
2 Comments,
199 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
|
|
Stop Crying; Redoux. 3/28/2005
Is once not enough? Must I keep repeating that when you post
a question in a public forum, that you cannot expect everyone
to agree?
Of late, I've recieved e-mails here at ALT, and even
seen post, of people complaining about my responses to
their posting. All I can say is.....Ahhhhh, did I hurt your
little feelings? Mean ole submarinar been too rough on
your poor little ass? Well, ...
3 Comments,
279 Views,
10 Votes
,5.18 Score
|
|
Tolerance and consideration 3/23/2005
Maybe I'm just getting old (no comments please  )
but when I started in the BDSM scene the "alternative"
in "alternative lifestyle" implied a tolerance
for other peoples sick warped perversions that the vanilla
community couldn't be relied upon to have.
<br>
This doesn't seem to be evident in a minority of the
members of alt. They seem, in fact, to have traded their
strict, ...
9 Comments,
387 Views,
12 Votes
,5.98 Score
|
