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2020-04-27 In traditional “vanilla” dating scene women far outnumber men but in the world of D/s the opposite phenomenon seems to exist. Even when comparing pretend Doms to actual Dominant/Alpha males the disparity persists. At the same time, there appears to be an increase in Fem Dommes. So why is that so one may wonder? <br><br> The answer lies in the same explanation as to why women, in general, appear to be embracing the D/s lifestyle to one degree or another. Simply put men are checking out. Men are increasingly becoming less masculine and many are no longer up the task God created them for, to lead, to uncertainty, to protect and persevere. Women who may not have the sexual proclivities that sexual submission women hold are drawn to the D/s lifestyle in hopes of finding a traditional man who will lead and protect. Hence the explosion of 50 Shades of Grey and similar genres of writing and movies. Unfortunately, these same women are disappointed at the lack of masculinity among even self-described Dominant men. Many of these men try to pawn themselves off as Dom’s thinking spanking their ass while fucking her from behind is what she wants. What she really wants is for you to lead, nurture, protect be a fucking man not just a man who fucks. <br><br> If you think this sounds like traditional patriarchal you would be right. Despite years of feminist theory being forced down women’s ( and men) throats, many women are rejecting the notion that men and women are the same. Many but not all, who did embrace the feminist mantra and deferred having serious relationships, and are now left with the realization that they had been lied too. They don’t want to be like a man they want to be a woman and compliment a man. <br><br> Men being slower, have yet to wake up to this fact. Many are still trying to be more like women and some are utterly confused. Indeed, many women are confused between what society tells them should be and what nature calls them to be. Until men wake up and learn how to be men and that it OK to be a man, many women will be left disappointed. <br><br> I am not condemning women who want no part of the patriarchal system and who do subscribe to the feminist theory. I believe women should be free to pursue their lives and much progress has been made towards that end. The tragedy is that many women are guilted into something that is largely unnatural. And men are simply don’t know what to do. |
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