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I Desp neeed some advice or guidance can you help ? 10/10/2007
I've always been Top mostly due i suppose to my ex husband
and personality type but I am now at a place in my life where
I am free to explore My desires My wants My fantasies and
I have realised that I would very much love to switch roles
that the thoughts of it really turns me on. To the point where
I am thinking about it a lot but I am unsure of how to go about
it or even it I would be able to. ...
5 Comments,
105 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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Tgirls 9/30/2007
What is the attraction that a straight man has with these
Lovely Tgirls?
From the beautiful hair, makeup, lips, long leggs lucious
ass and even the dick. Which on a man is not even the least
bit enticing.
Any answer will be taken to great lengths.
5 Comments,
261 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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smoothly does it. 9/17/2007
Can any ladies(or men) out there give me some advice on getting
a really smooth shave? I have tried loads of methods, epilating,
depilatory creams, expensive mens razors and womens razors
and nothing seems to work! I'm either left with stubble,
a rash or ingrowing hairs!
4 Comments,
253 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Newbie Advice and Info 8/29/2007
Following, in no particular order, are a few points of advice
and general interest for those new to the swing scene in
general and the Alt scene in particular. It is blunt, frank
and un-PC article. The opinions expressed are those of
the authors and are largely based on our own anecdotal evidence.
We are confident these will hold up to objective scrutiny
or we wouldn't bother posting the article: ...
4 Comments,
282 Views,
11 Votes
,5.60 Score
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Sex with people you don't "Fancy" 8/29/2007
I kinda have a thing for sex with people that I would not say
I "fancied" in the classic sence; just purely
get excited about the idea of having sex with them.
For example larger girls, older girls, strangers ... all
these things excite me sexually but not in a way that I'd
maybe look for in regular partner.
One slight issue I have with this is how honest I should be ...
2 Comments,
283 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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for the women 8/29/2007
why must you leave the bathroom door open when you go ?
I know you've been in your relationship long enough
he's seen you nude lot's of times but the one time he does not want to see you is when you are sitting on the stool.
WHY CAN'T YOU CLOSE THE DOOR ?
and while I'm at it, why can't you wait till a man's done shaving before you come in and take a dump????
we ...
8 Comments,
201 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Looking for creative input. 8/15/2007
For the last few years I've been working in writing
erotic stories loosely based on experiences my ex-wife
and I had "playing". Is there anybody out there
who can help with some creative input?
0 Comments,
46 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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gonna piss off all the women 8/15/2007
why is it that when a nice looking female walks by you when
you are with a woman she will say something like "bitch.....she
thinks she's hot"
I'm thinking that myself.
why is it anytime a woman sees another that she thinks is
attractive she has to make a derogatory comment about her.
if she sees a woman wearing a short skirt she will have something
to say about that. ...
4 Comments,
138 Views,
6 Votes
,1.66 Score
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Plug Training 8/7/2007
My Master is putting me through butt plug training. He say's
i should be able to take Him in any hole without a problem.
i am finding it very diffecult to hold the plug in without
wearing panties. Can anyone help this undeserving slut?
i want to please my Master but i don't know how to keep it in.
Please someone help me!!
1 Comments,
168 Views,
34 Votes
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Dangers of anal sex 8/1/2007
Anal sex, if practised with care, is possible for most couples.
It does, however, carry additional health risks and there
are safer sexual practices that couples can enjoy. The
main health risks, which affect both heterosexual and
homosexual couples, are:
<br>
Human immunodeficiency virus (HIV): there is good research
evidence that anal intercourse carries a greater risk
of ...
2 Comments,
729 Views,
21 Votes
,6.22 Score
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"amature photographer" 7/30/2007
I've always been interested in filming my subs, taking
photos or short movies of them and us, erotic photography?
call it what you will. I'm just now looking for some
new playmates, looking for any subs who are interested,
or advice on finding people with similar interests, in
being photographed.
2 Comments,
49 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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how to keep her 7/15/2007
I have met a wonderful woman on this site. She is my sub. She
is everything I could ever dream for in a woman. The sex is
beyond belief. She is completely submissive to me in every
way sexually, she begs for my cum in her mouth , she begs for
anal, she is multi orgasmic, dresses exactly as i tell her
to do, and constantly tells me , she will do anything I ask.
We get along well non ...
1 Comments,
112 Views,
13 Votes
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Heartbreak and Trust ; Cyber Style 7/10/2007
I am wondering about the issue of "cyber relationships"
as it seems very treacherous ground to tread. I had a friend
write a letter to me and I have posted it [only with her permission]
within my blog.
I am really looking for feedback from other submissives
and Dominants to help her through this time. I am just unsure
what to say and am asking for the good opinion of what I feel
to be ...
1 Comments,
113 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Advice to Dominants and would be Dominants 7/8/2007
Advice to New and "would be" Dominants, but
will you listen? - probably not! You would much rather stuff
your own and sombody elses life up!
from Bella34
<br>
Congratulations! You have just come to the conclusion
that you are a Dominant or would really like to be one!
Step (1) You rush out and buy a pair of leather pants and a
black shirt - but wait you are incomplete - Ahhh a ...
1 Comments,
87 Views,
40 Votes
,7.87 Score
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Bi Porn 7/7/2007
Seriously 90% of the Bi porn isn't great. Any help on
what I should be buying?
0 Comments,
119 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Need some advice please 6/25/2007
I love the thought of being anally penetrated by a dominate
woman with a strap-on but when ever i play about with a dildo
it just doesnt feel pleasurable. Has any one got any tips
on how i could make it feel better?
1 Comments,
87 Views,
0 Votes
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TRAINING 6/13/2007
Training Is How a Dominant Learns His submissive's
Needs. To wield Power over someone you must understand
them. This Is Something That Must Flow Naturally From Within
Him. The Time In Which A Dominant Shall Teach His submissive,
However At the same time...He Is Able To Learn What Kind
Of submissive She Is. & Whether His Needs Both Physically
And Emotionally Shall Be Met. As A Dominant Man, ...
8 Comments,
561 Views,
23 Votes
,6.86 Score
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knots for bondage 6/10/2007
Hi can any one help me, I am familiar with the common knots eg hitch, half-hitch, granny etc. But would like to find book which will give me, a better understanding of more exotic knots eg Asia and the far east.
2 Comments,
125 Views,
1 Votes
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Abusing the COLLAR 6/6/2007
Why should I collar you?
I don't really know you.
Do you really know me?
Do you even understand what it Means?
The Collar and Its Meaning
A collar in BDSM symbolizes a commitment that has often
been compared to a wedding ring. This type of commitment
comes in other forms, such as a brand, a tattoo, a piercing....
Each symbolizing the pledge of the Dominant to ...
3 Comments,
302 Views,
22 Votes
,7.57 Score
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The Difference between S/M and Abuse 6/1/2007
A group of leaders and activists who attended the Leather
Leadership Conference II in NYC on April 17-19, 1998, compiled
the following set of ideals based on established community
principles that SM is fundamentally different from abuse.
We hope the community agrees to the following Standards
& Guidelines that are intended to help the law enforcement
and social services communities ...
1 Comments,
220 Views,
12 Votes
,5.45 Score
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Cum Swallowing Tips 5/31/2007
Cum Swallowing Tips
Suck on an Altoid, Tic Tac, or mentholated cough drop immediately
before giving head. Many guys enjoy getting a tingle from
mint or menthol products on their willies. The mint will
add a little zing to the blow job, and kill the taste of the
semen when he cums. You can also use a dab of toothpaste in
a pinch. We don't recommend mouthwash or breath sprays; ...
2 Comments,
492 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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Female Ejaculation 5/28/2007
This article was passed on to me by another member in the
hopes that I would pass it on to others here on alt. and in
my other venues. My thanks to Elder_Velvet for his contribution.
Some women ejaculate during orgasm like men do. It's
a natural action, but there's a lot of misunderstanding
about it. When it happens, It's often a surprise to
both parties, and an embarassment to the woman. ...
3 Comments,
476 Views,
15 Votes
,6.04 Score
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Tips on Professional Dommes? 5/10/2007
Has anyone ever visited a professional Dominatrix? Any
tips or advice? I'm thinking of going to one so I can
finally have the fantasy I want - domination, strapon and
humiliation
0 Comments,
136 Views,
2 Votes
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Meeting on ALT 5/7/2007
I would like to meet other ladies on ALT. I have found that
well, for now no luck and I have been on for the last 5 months.
Is it all by having a Silver or Gold or is it ???, Please check
my profile to let me know if I am way off base or upgrade membership.
Thank you all
1 Comments,
126 Views,
4 Votes
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How does one motivate one's partner to accept anal? 5/7/2007
My current partner is a very sensuous latin lady. When our
play gets to the point that rimming becomes a part, she at
first enjoys it until she realizes where the pleasure is
coming from. at that point she steers the play away from
the anal area even though she gets great pleasure from it.
Do I continue and try to increase the time she accepts the
attention to her ass? Hoping that eventually ...
1 Comments,
88 Views,
3 Votes
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10 Themes for Domination 4/29/2007
I wold like to share with all Egyptian dom(me)s these basic
rules about domination:
1. Be patient! Until you enter into a contract with a submissive,
you have no more right to order him/her around than does
anyone else. Give your bottom time to get to know you and
what you are like. Finesse and subtlety are major elements
of dominance. Similarly, strength and gentleness ...
1 Comments,
248 Views,
8 Votes
,6.26 Score
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I Could Beat You For That, But You Would Enjoy It Too Much: Alternative Punishments That Work 4/29/2007
Punishment by nature is something that is to be avoided,
something that is negative; it should be unwelcome and
act as a negative motivator. It can be used to motivate a
submissive/slave to start behaving in a certain manner
or it can be used to encourage a behavior to stop.
Some people think that a paddling or spanking is punishment;
these actions would normally be what I would ...
2 Comments,
295 Views,
11 Votes
,5.04 Score
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Gag mad with a latex allergy? Read this! 4/27/2007
I've spent the last few years desperately searching
for a ball gag, but my allergy to latex has foiled me at every
turn. Living in the back of beyond means no sex shops for
me, so all toys are bought online.
However, I've found that even if the manufacturer
notes that a product contains latex, there's no guarantee
that the supplier will bother to mention it on their website.
...
4 Comments,
183 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Aggressiveness 4/22/2007
I am a man who has a strong interest in being dominant. I have
had contact with true submissive women in the past and found
I not only enjoyed it, but longed for it. And I want to explore
that lifestyle to the fullest.
But I have a problem. I have a submissive personality. I
was with a dominant woman. A woman who sought out submissive
men not just for sex but as a partner as well. But, she ...
4 Comments,
121 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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electric play info 4/16/2007
anyone know anything about electric shock play?
don't mean with a tens unit.....with anyway for a stronger
shock......
have been asked to learn how to do shock therapy like she
saw in a movie........I know nothing about it.
any help would be helpful.
thanks
5 Comments,
149 Views,
2 Votes
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