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HELP, in need of advice 10/8/2008
I really don't know what to do so any advice would be
welcome. A year ago this September my wife and I were invited
to a reunion. A group of about 15 couples that have summer
houses on a small northern lake. The party was great, lots
of booze and great food. Nobody was feeling any pain if you
know what I mean. I was outside talking with a few of the guys
when I excused myself to use the bathroom. ...
2 Comments,
180 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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Permanent Hair Removal 10/6/2008
Is it better to have a female slave's pubic hair permanently
removed if you intend to have her cunt pierced and tattooed?
Which method is better Laser or Electrolysis?
1 Comments,
146 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Can't All Be The Same...... 9/25/2008
No two Doms/Dommes or submissives are exactly the same
in the alternative lifestyle. Everyone is different with
differrent likes and dislikes and learning that about
each other is an important part of any relationship. Mutual
respect for those differences goes a long way toward any
agreement or comprimise. Even in the Ds relationship there
is an 'exchange of power' and issues of ...
0 Comments,
150 Views,
68 Votes
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bi girls are exceptable and bi guys are not what gives? 8/24/2008
i`m a bi-curious guy and have found it way less exceptable
than if it is a bisexual female. I have yet to meet anyone
or couple but am very intrested in doing so i would like to
meet a female that excepts my intrests i don`t nessarly
need to live out the intrests but would like to be exceptable
to someone who understands and can live with it. i was divorced
last year because of my intrests ...
2 Comments,
98 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Watersports 8/22/2008
Hi there, I like watersports alot. Usually it is in our bathroom,
what can I do to make it more fun in the living room ??? Any
suggestions???
3 Comments,
410 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Today's Lesson (True Story) 8/20/2008
Today’s Lesson
A True Story by Lady Lee
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Today I learned something about myself. The one who refers
to herself as LadyLee. I met a couple that I have been talking
to for a while online, and who reside in Southern California.
They are Dom and Slave as a couple. I felt very comfortable
with him, as he was my main contact of the two. He ...
0 Comments,
345 Views,
73 Votes
,8.30 Score
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Ten Tips for the Novice, Single, Heterosexual, Submissive Woman 7/18/2008
Let me guess. You're a woman, you're heterosexual,
and you keep having strange, disturbing, recurring, and intense fantasies
of a powerful, masterful man having his way with you. Perhaps
he tears off your clothes and takes you. Perhaps he throws you over his
knee and gives you a long, hard spanking. Perhaps he ties you naked
and spread-eagled to a bed and proceeds to alternately tease
and torture ...
3 Comments,
455 Views,
20 Votes
,6.57 Score
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Why are there so many people on this site that just like to type vs. actually doing anything? 7/15/2008
Although my husband and I are fairly new to this site, I can't
help but wonder (or maybe its just new to me or I have totally
fucked up our profile ) why so many people exchange likes,
dislikes, etc. but aren't really active in pursuing
something that probably would be pretty fun. I have spent
a couple of days checking out different parts of alt.com
to get a better understanding of what ...
6 Comments,
224 Views,
10 Votes
,3.98 Score
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training a Dom? 7/12/2008
My BF/lover is wanting to go to the next level. We've
been pretty wild in the past, borderline BDSM, but now I've
issued an invitation, which he has accepted. A matter of
trust. We've done a few toys, anal, biting, and sex
play for hours.
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He's waiting for the greenlight. Anything he wants
is kind of vague and could be harmful, so any suggestions?
i've had a bit of leather ...
3 Comments,
311 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Jist lookin' 4 sum advice or tips for Daddy Dom/ role play? 6/22/2008
So me and my wife hav bn wantin' 2 do sum expermentin'
and we both mentioned the Daddy Dom/ role play
and decided 2 try it. We hav bn emailin' each other back
and forth, playin' our parts in the emails. And we were
just lookin' for sum advice or tips on how 2 move it from
email 2 the bed.
She feels a little silly, yet aroused, by callin' me
Daddy. She wants 2 do a good ...
1 Comments,
149 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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Strap-on 6/16/2008
I'd like to hear peoples views thoughts about mf strap-on
sex. pros cons likes dislikes or anything else that comes to
mind
4 Comments,
162 Views,
6 Votes
,1.66 Score
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WHATS HAPPENED TO THE CAMS! 5/24/2008
Hi, Ive been on here for 3 years, the first year as a gold member
and for the last two years as a standard member. Recently
I have found that when ever I click on a cam on instant messenger
the window dissappears without letting me view. The only
cams that seem available are the ones that are in private
and so I can see them, obviously! What is going on? Is this
the normal level of service for ...
1 Comments,
132 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Question about latex 5/19/2008
I am completely new to the conept of latex, and have a general
idea of how to put it on, though have not practiced yet. My
question is, once it's on, how do you get it off? Peel
it off? Is there a special substance to remove it? Is it painful?
I haven't done any of this yet and figured it'd
be best to do my homework on the subject before encountering
any unexpected surprises. All advice will ...
0 Comments,
92 Views,
7 Votes
,4.31 Score
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Domming 4/22/2008
Switch by nature. I say so because I feel so Dominant sometimes
I just want to be in control, and the rest of the time, you
know it
Thing is, I would like to know where I could learn and get
more information on becoming a better Dom. Are there any
websites or books that teach you to become a perfect Dom?
All suggestions would help! Thanks, Kama...
1 Comments,
70 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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Im new 4/19/2008
Im new to this sight and like to be the dom partner. Is there
anyway i can find female partners who would be willing to
be sub?
0 Comments,
82 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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When you know, what you are? 4/7/2008
What you should do, when you know what you are?? well I'll say if you know wht you are then you should
come out with it.. stayin hidden doesn't help anyone
in the relationship..
1 Comments,
38 Views,
4 Votes
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Compromise 4/7/2008
I thought I'd pass along a couple of things I find make
life a lot easier. These are two things most people don't
seem to want to hear about: compromise and having realistic
expectations.
If you have a need for something and can't seem to attain
it, try to compromise. Maybe it won't be what you would
call perfect, but it will be close enough for you to experience
something similiar. Sure ...
2 Comments,
49 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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I need help w/giving oral 3/29/2008
I know, it sounds so stupid, but I am completely serious.
I am not at all experienced in giving oral sex to men. for
some reason i am very scared that i will do it wrong or that
they won't respond the way i think they should. My biggest
fear is not being able to get a man off. How humiliating would
that be?!?! So, because I now have a guy that makes me really
want to do it, because i ...
2 Comments,
324 Views,
7 Votes
,5.08 Score
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re: Such a thing as New Dom? 3/23/2008
There are such things as new doms, and while you are your
own person, so is everybody else, and some common understandings
are prudent. There are plenty of articles and books addressing
dominance. Some of the works are important to help you understand
why you want do do what you do and why someone else would want
you to do it to them. There are technique books which are
important to help ...
0 Comments,
57 Views,
27 Votes
,8.50 Score
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Deep throating.... 2/19/2008
Hi..This is my first post. I've deep throated a few
men and they seemed to really love it BUT I have on occasion
scraped my teeth against their cock or their cock is thick
so my back teeth actually cut him. My question is...What's
the best position to be in so I can give "him"
the best blow job of "his" life?
Thank you..
Christine
3 Comments,
218 Views,
5 Votes
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What am I doing wrong 2/6/2008
I have written many messages to different people. They
are somewhat brief but friendly and formal. I have not recieved
any messages back not even to say no thanks. Is there any
general advice from anyone out there on what I could do to
maybe help me out. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank
you.
1 Comments,
126 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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surface piercing 2/6/2008
Can anyone tell me how long a corset piercing can remain
in? i really am interested in getting one. Thanks for any
information anyone can provide.
3 Comments,
119 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Diving In 1/31/2008
Like a lot of members here at Alt, this website has been my
first foray into this lifestyle. I know there are a lot of
seasoned pros here, but a search of profiles shows me that
a lot of us came to this site as newcomers.
When I joined, I tried to express my desires and fantasies
as best I could articulate them in my profile. In an attempt
to offer as much about myself as I could, I ...
0 Comments,
77 Views,
8 Votes
,4.17 Score
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Advice needed... roleplay scenarios 1/31/2008
so... I am meeting with a young lady (yes, she's over the age
of consent, thanks for asking) and we are playing daddy/ - teacher/ schoolgirl
- daddy/babygirl games
basically I start off with a little plan to start the rolepaly
going and then after a while, we just let it all go from there.
Has anyone got any new ideas for scenarios - or enjopyable
scenarios that they use themselves
1 Comments,
226 Views,
3 Votes
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Want to Learn 12/19/2007
I am young and wanting to learn from a experinced Master.
If anyone has some help for me to get in this lifestyle as
a Master i would love to hear from anyone. Thanks
0 Comments,
98 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score
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Pvc - what do you use to give that wet look? 11/29/2007
I just got a new pvc catsuit and was wondering what do i use
to protect it & give it that wet look shine? Can anyone
give me some help? thanks rata
1 Comments,
62 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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My 2 Cents for submissives 11/18/2007
Many of you have asked that I write a little something for
the subs out there. I hope this helps..
M/many involved in the BDSM lifestyle have been introduced
to it through the Internet and online chat rooms. Online
can be very intense and very special. It can also lead to
great harm to many, just as realtime relationships can
be quite intense and special and for others just as harmful. ...
1 Comments,
171 Views,
11 Votes
,4.29 Score
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Want to find Different Ways of Masturbation 10/17/2007
I am bored by doing masturbation sameway all the time--You
know jerking off by hand. Can anyone tell me any variations?Please
donot advice me any electronic tools-I donot like them
at all.
1 Comments,
203 Views,
17 Votes
,0.16 Score
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It’s Raining Men: Basics of Water Sports 10/15/2007
Urine – Liquid waste product produced by the kidneys. The
volume of urine depends on the fluid intake and diet. An
average amount of urine excreted within a 24-hour period
is between 0.8 and 2.6 liters.
The kidneys maintain the bodies’ electrolyte balance
by excreting excess electrolytes into the urine. Chemically,
urine is mainly an aqueous (watery) solution of salt (sodium
chloride), ...
2 Comments,
184 Views,
9 Votes
,4.07 Score
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I Desp neeed some advice or guidance can you help ? 10/10/2007
I've always been Top mostly due i suppose to my ex husband
and personality type but I am now at a place in my life where
I am free to explore My desires My wants My fantasies and
I have realised that I would very much love to switch roles
that the thoughts of it really turns me on. To the point where
I am thinking about it a lot but I am unsure of how to go about
it or even it I would be able to. ...
5 Comments,
105 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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