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ANOTHERSANTA 94 M
93 Articles
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SANTA;"TAKE THIS JOPB AND SHOVE IT!"   1/25/2005

SANTA{DESDLINE]"BE YOUR OWN BOSS" SECRETSANTA was reading the Sunday paper and turned to the ComicSection of the Wilm.Star*Newss, and started to read a new cartoon strip"NoN SEQ- UITAR" by Wiley, andgotsuch.a chuckle , that he picked up the phone and placed a callto his grandchildren in far off Iceland;that brought back memories of "Sigrum", the nordic blonde buxom beauty he dated at ...


0 Comments, 885 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
cumgiver3 53 M
1 Article
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This is my first   1/23/2005

I'm new at this sort of thing, so bear with me. My fantasy is to be dominated by a woman or a couple. My question is this, is it better to start with a couple (man and woman) or just a woman?


2 Comments, 151 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
MasterAlucard4 68 M
5 Articles
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looking for advice   1/23/2005

I am looking for advice on how a man can turn a woman into a total slut.The woman refered to is a lady out of bed, ,but in bed she thinks the lights out and her lieing there is the proper way to go about it.I have tried many things, to no avail.Someone tell me what i am doing wrong


4 Comments, 385 Views, 10 Votes ,1.59 Score
yungncuriousguy 41 M
30 Articles
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Taking things further..   1/19/2005

It was soon after that when I confided to her about my interest in the concept of bondage. I went very slowly and the first scene we played was one where I spread-eagled her to a bed and essentially played the entire thing on the fact that she could be pleasured and not have to do a thing. (I have found that this is a concept that women don't really have much of a problem with.) ...


3 Comments, 287 Views, 14 Votes ,3.78 Score
morefun34 43 C
1 Article
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Need New Dominance Angle   1/18/2005

Many years back, I was a professional dominatrix. My were area specific in that nothing illegal was included in my sevices. My were more into humiliation and fetish. I had been trained for these needs. Through this work I learned I was meant for the submissive role; at best a switch, because I never really enjoyed most of the interaction. The most general were into pain, being called ...


1 Comments, 392 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
angelser2 55 F
8 Articles
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appropriate punishment...   1/14/2005

Hey everyone I am asking all dom's and subs and switches a question for advice... I am a switch and have recently overdrawn my checking account by a little over a hundred dollars. This is not the first time this has occured I have over drawn my account several times in the past. I am asking you all what would a appropriate punishment be for me.. Please be specific and tell all... Thank ...


3 Comments, 580 Views, 14 Votes ,0.26 Score
ANOTHERSANTA 94 M
93 Articles
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SANTA;SOLUTION.TO.IRAQ.CAR-BOMBINGS.&.ROAD.SIDE.ATTACKS?:   1/11/2005

SANTA[DATELINE]IRAQ;SAVE.OUR.TROOPS: SECRETSANTA Has learned of a secret Army Arsenal Laser Device tthat could be used in Iraq and elsewhere and ave countless civilian, and our overseas combat forces lives by merely reading varied Tech.Journals and other Tech Magazines.Laser with the range of 1, 500 Yards. The.Laser.Device.will explode the Insurgent-Terroiste ...


1 Comments, 75 Views, 3 Votes
flash51167 53 M
7 Articles
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new year new life   1/10/2005

This is a new year friends time to reach out and connect to other members on this site. Mix it up and lets get it started in here.


1 Comments, 102 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
ANOTHERSANTA 94 M
93 Articles
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SANTA;"SMOKERS.BIG.BOTHER.IS.WATCHING"   1/10/2005

SANTA[DEADLINE]ROME, ITALY(wiresvrpt) SECRETSANTA noted:Sunday 1/9/2005 a.total.smoking.ban.in.public.places Smokers in Italy took their last puff in smoky bars and trattorias Sunday, as the new tough smoking ban began. This is the start of one of Europes toughest laws against smoking in bars, restaurants, and other public places. Only smoking allowed in private ...


0 Comments, 116 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
synchophant 58 M
3 Articles
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Suggestions needed concerning a long distance Domme/sub relationship.   1/9/2005

Of course trust is a key factor in any relationship, and probably more so in a long distance relationship. But are there ways for a Domme to control Her submissive who is not physically present? What practical devices and methods are available for a Domme to insure Her control over a submissive that does not live near Her? How does a Domme control a submissive in a long distance ...


1 Comments, 202 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
krisleathers 59 F
1 Article
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How hard is it to understand "I'm not a domme" ?   1/8/2005

At the very top of my profile I very clearly point out that I'm an SM switch, and I'm not at all into dominance and submission. I also clearly state that if you're looking for a mistress, I'm not right for you. <br> Is that so terribly hard to understand? <br> Why do men (and it's always men, never women) insist on sending me responses that start off by addressing me ...


0 Comments, 176 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
Tari197 52 F
14 Articles
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So no one can hear you scream ;)   1/8/2005

Is there anyway to temporarily soundproof a room? I live in a Townhouse and sometimes when we go at it especially with toys we tend to get sort of loud and by my house sharing a mutual wall with the townhouse its attached to I wonder about what they hear.


2 Comments, 378 Views, 14 Votes ,3.78 Score
icq4me 51 M
1 Article
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Watersports   1/7/2005

Hi there, I like watersports alot. Usually it is in our bathroom, what can I do to make it more fun in the living room ??? Any suggestions???


3 Comments, 410 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
MistressKrystal3 63 T
16 Articles
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How to get a Mistresses attention (Including Mine) *an opinion   1/6/2005

If you want to get a Mistress to notice you. (in a good way) <br> This could also work in many relationships with other people as well <br> It would be good to be selfless in the pursuit of pleasing in many ways, if I get an e-mail that says "Mistress i can please you all night", I'm likely to drop it in the round file without a moments regret. <br> If ...


5 Comments, 525 Views, 31 Votes ,5.73 Score
S_she_S 54 F
36 Articles
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Reply to "Frustrated"   9/28/2004

I can completely sympathize with you. While I reply to e-mails daily and most often in a timely fashion, there are some that are just so ridiculous I do not bother, and most often they say "Reply if Interested" Apparently? I am not interested. <br> I'd have to say though the most annoying, and mind you this is coming from a female point of view, is the idiots that ...


0 Comments, 154 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
S_she_S 54 F
36 Articles
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Pic Help   9/27/2004

So..I've heard the whole old addage that some(not all) Dominants are afraid to post their picture on alt, for the following reasons. ANd then come up with the following remarks this is truly subjective. 1) I have ..........(WHat the HELL are your doin perving around alt.com to see your pic that you placed here? If you have older again I ask...What are they doing perving around alt.com...get ...


8 Comments, 315 Views, 15 Votes ,5.73 Score
maid_jenny 56 M
1 Article
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Stepping out in NY   9/26/2004

Hi I am visiting NY in two weeks and My mistress wants to take me out fully fem dressed. Are there any things I need to know, where to go or stay away from, All help / advice will be gratefully received. Cheers Jenny. x


0 Comments, 159 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
PASilverTop2 75 M
12 Articles
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Psychopathic Subs: Apparitions, Spirits and Wraiths   9/24/2004

Hello again. This is part 1 of a new series called “Psychopathic Subs”. It’s primarily designed for newbies but I think everyone else might get a chuckle or two out of it. If you’ve been on Alt for longer than fifteen minutes, you’re already painfully aware of the fact that there’s no shortage of crazies around here. Maybe this part will help you to identify them early on ...


1 Comments, 293 Views, 35 Votes ,6.94 Score
ladyregopark 74 F
4 Articles
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Form Letters   9/23/2004

Just now, I received a form letter that justified my tearing down dirty window curtains, balling them into a plastic bag, and dreaming of ramming the entire contents down the throat of the lazy pervert (with negative connotations vs. we, the general positive perverts) who sent me an email. <br> <br> The pervert never read my profile nor did he demonstrate an intuitive ...


0 Comments, 73 Views, 0 Votes
ladyregopark 74 F
4 Articles
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Form Letters   9/23/2004

Just now, I received a form letter that justified my tearing down dirty window curtains, balling them into a plastic bag, and dreaming of ramming the entire contents down the throat of the lazy pervert (with negative connotations vs. we, the general positive perverts) who sent me an email. The pervert never read my profile nor did he demonstrate an intuitive creative ability to add a name. ...


0 Comments, 83 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
QueenBee4real 51 F
6 Articles
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Weighting the Pros and the Cons to SEX. (This is My Opinion)   9/22/2004

Pros: Means of Making Money Creating Life Expressing Love for Another Sexual Gratification (Temporary) Consummating a Marriage Cons: Financially Costly Unwanted Pregnancy Mis-interpanting Lust for Love Broken Heart Sexually Transmitted Diseases (shall I name them all) Death Labeled as Easy (verbally disrespected) Corrupt Reputation Sexual Crimes Cheating Partners Uncomfortable ...


0 Comments, 105 Views, 1 Votes
Bella2004 57 F
3 Articles
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lies, trust and so forth   9/20/2004

i would like to ask everyone, Dom/me and sub alike for their advice/opinion on a very serious problem. Please, be as honest and hard as each of Y/you think is needed...or not as the case may be, i am in desperate need of help. How do Y/you deal with someone who out and out lies to Y/you and knows they have been caught yet they try to lay blame eslewhere?? Point of fact, i caught a ...


1 Comments, 62 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Bella2004 57 F
3 Articles
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lies, trust and so forth   9/20/2004

i would like to ask everyone, Dom/me and sub alike for their advice/opinion on a very serious problem. Please, be as honest and hard as each of Y/you think is needed...or not as the case may be, i am in desperate need of help. How do Y/you deal with someone who out and out lies to Y/you and knows they have been caught yet they try to lay blame eslewhere?? Point of fact, i caught a Dom/Master ...


2 Comments, 141 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
GoodKarmaCafe 58 C
2 Articles
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You Bore Me!   9/17/2004

Being part of a couple here on alt...I expect my partner to share with me everything that we, as a couple do here! It's "OUR" profile. We are ment to be in this together... not just one person out for themselves. The fact that you HIDE what you do here BORES ME! It makes me question the whole foundation of our relationship! It makes me question everything about you! I find ...


0 Comments, 68 Views, 14 Votes ,4.74 Score
PASilverTop2 75 M
12 Articles
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Staying Safe in Bedlam   9/10/2004

Part 2 of 4… <br> Just in case you didn’t get the reference in the title, here’s the origin of the word Bedlam. “A London hospital originally intended for the poor suffering from any ailment and for such as might have no other lodging, hence its name, Bethlehem, in Hebrew, the "house of bread." During the fourteenth century it began to be used partly as an asylum ...


0 Comments, 71 Views, 17 Votes ,6.66 Score
theabqfella 46 M
3 Articles
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Older Woman   9/7/2004

I know I am not the only man with this fantasy...The Graduate Fantasy...hell..they made a movie...thanks Dustin! I want to know if it is true that older women are better lovers...because they know what they want, what they are doing, how they like it, etc? I was told by a woman friend of mine that the best she ever had was a 40 year old man (she's 25)...because he took his time and paid ...


0 Comments, 52 Views, 12 Votes ,4.92 Score
sugarbolt 39 F
1 Article
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Does playing always have to involve sex?   9/5/2004

When you meet someone for a session is it necessary that sex should always follow? Do the dom’s expect to have sex after playing? I want to meet people and I may take a few people to find out what guy I would like to pursue – and I would love to play with but I dome what your say in this matter is. not want to have sex with everyone I play with. Can someone give me some advice – ...


1 Comments, 437 Views, 17 Votes ,5.39 Score
tsihsitef2 48 M
1 Article
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What more men need to do for their ladies   9/3/2004

Always make sure your partner is ready. In fact, I don't even start intercourse until my partner comes first from oral sex.


0 Comments, 58 Views, 24 Votes ,6.77 Score
misterobvious 39 M
3 Articles
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Chastity belts?   9/2/2004

I find them completely erotic and beautiful. I'm interested in wearing one for my eventual mistress but I was wondering if anyone out there could share advice and any experiences for me? Thanks for your time.


1 Comments, 145 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
cateyes2004 69 F
9 Articles
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Re: What is the Zone?   8/27/2004

I am fairly new to the BDSM lifestyle. You are asking about the Zone and I believe it is called several different things. I first heard of it referred to as sub-space. I think of it as focusing inward. <br> It took some work on my part to reach that level. At first, I would begin a relaxation technique of sorts. I would repeat a neutral word (the word one is an ...


0 Comments, 90 Views, 21 Votes ,6.59 Score