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How do you tell your girlfriend that you are a crossdresser? 7/3/2005
I told my first grilfriend straight out.... She went a running
and along with the running came a lot of gossip and alot of
flack which i obviously denided and said that "i was
only joking i only wanted to see what she would say"
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I left this for some time and never told any other for quite
some time as i didnt want to go through this again.
Anyway i ended up moving in with a ...
4 Comments,
488 Views,
20 Votes
,4.53 Score
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what is normal 7/2/2005
What is normal what in the world today descibes normal and
what makes somone srange I mean with everything today I
thing everyone is so out there there is no line anymore
4 Comments,
158 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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MILF 6/28/2005
What exactly does MILF stand for? I've checked the
glossary but it's not listed
4 Comments,
797 Views,
11 Votes
,2.79 Score
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How to get a Mistresses attention (Including Mine) *an opinion 6/27/2005
If you want to get a Mistress to notice you.
(in a good way)
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This could also work in many relationships with other people
as well
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It would be good to be selfless in the pursuit of pleasing
in many ways, if I get an e-mail that says "Mistress
i can please you all night", I'm likely to drop
it in the round file without a moments regret.
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If ...
5 Comments,
525 Views,
31 Votes
,5.73 Score
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Kink...What do you think? 6/27/2005
My Master/Husband and I are considering the possiblity
of embarking on a sexual adventure.
We’re tnking about living out our deepest, wildest fantasies,
turning wet dreams into reality. I have a very real question,
that, I am sure many women ask…what if?
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I guess it comes down to fun versus consequences. I would
like to know how other people; women ...
3 Comments,
234 Views,
8 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Why lie..........? 6/23/2005
Prior to having my joint profile and meeting my partner,
I had a sole profile. All totalled I've been a member
of Alt for 2 years. But the one thing I'll never get over,
is why there are so many fake's and frauds out there.
WHY LIE? I'm sure we've all met people who are very
different in person to how they are online, which resulted
in all parties wasting their time.
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But ...
6 Comments,
497 Views,
16 Votes
,4.60 Score
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Building Trust 6/20/2005
Most of us in here have been around the block one or twice.
I think it would be safe to say that not all of us have come
out un-scared either. What happens when you finally meet
the right One?
I have met mine, He is my Master, my brand new Husband and
my best friend. With Him, I have felt depths of emotions
I have never before felt with another. He really makes my
heart smile.
The issue ...
1 Comments,
84 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Need to go longer? 6/18/2005
Do You need to go a little longer while having sex? are you
a male who tends to be a one minute man? Well the most simplest
thing you could ever do when in the heat of the moement is
to..."CHANGE POSITIONS." you'll both
have more fun and go longer ...
1 Comments,
288 Views,
10 Votes
,3.39 Score
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Spanking... basics and tips for doing it well 6/17/2005
Spanking is one of the classics in erotic power exchange.
The term spanking is usually used for anything that has
to do with spanking the bottom. In general, no other parts
of the body are involved. Purist spankers will only accept
spanking as spanking when it is done by hand, but often the
back of hair brushes, table tennis bats, slippers, a swat
or small leather devices, sometimes shaped ...
2 Comments,
377 Views,
20 Votes
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Ways of dealing with life 6/15/2005
Ways of dealing with the burdens of life:
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* Accept that some days you're the pigeon, and some
days you're the statue.
* Always keep your words soft and sweet, just in case you
have to eat them.
* Always read stuff that will make you look good if you die
in the! middle of it.
* Drive carefully. It's not only cars that can be recalled
by their maker.
* If you can't ...
4 Comments,
231 Views,
13 Votes
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i`m not a real slave? 6/14/2005
Some of the Mistress that i talked to they asked me to do some
things that i don`t want to be involved in....for example
like rough whipping. I`m very much into humiliation practices.
If i refuse some practices that means i`m not a 100% slave
?
4 Comments,
449 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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A Good Domme 6/12/2005
I can't believe the number of complaints I hear from
men I communicate with about not being able to find a truly
dominant woman or someone who knows what she's doing.
I'm new to the lifestyle so of course hearing this is
not music to my ears. I've just read a short article
that asks a question that is impossible to answer which
is what makes a good submissive or slave.
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What ...
0 Comments,
313 Views,
8 Votes
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MY THOUGHTS ON THE WAY OTHERS TREAT SWITCHES/ THINK ABOUT IT 6/12/2005
Well I have been in this lifestyle for a very long time before
I meet my best friend and soul mate/Master. I was a Mistress
before I became a switch, I was trained as a Mistress many
years ago, and never thought in my wildest dreams, would
I ever submit to a man, and for over 11 years I did not and I
was happy with that, until I met my Master, and now I am very
comfortable with who I am and ...
1 Comments,
308 Views,
10 Votes
,4.58 Score
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Trying to find a partner who will accept me for who i am 6/11/2005
Im finding it dificult to find a partner who will accept
me for who i am, or should i say for what i wear. Im a crossdresser
in my mid 20`s, i dont wear womens clothes all the time but
i do like to come home from work and just get dressed up and
relax.
My past girlfriends have known about me crossdressing
and said that they were fine with it but obviously not. I
would come down stairs ...
1 Comments,
388 Views,
13 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Nipple Enhancment, enlargement, sensitivity, etc. 6/3/2005
I have been dressing in bras, things, thigh highs and garters
ever since my lady friend got me to try it. Now she has got
me hooked on sucking on my nipples while we are having sex
together. She has big beautiful nipples and she is wondering
if anyone has any non surgical suggestions to enlarge or
enhance the nipples and the darken and enlarge my smaller
nipples. Her fantasy is to have ...
3 Comments,
987 Views,
27 Votes
,3.45 Score
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it`s normal this way ? 5/19/2005
Im` a 35 years old male slave from Roamnia. Until now i didn`t
found a real Mistress. When i say real Mistress i mean a lady
who wants to dominate because she feels this way. I had to
pay financials Domina to fulfill my fantazies. Is this
ok?
1 Comments,
170 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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What Men Want 5/19/2005
Well it is always a challenge to figure out what the brothas
want or if they are comfortable or love what you have to offer.
Then again getting a man is easy, keeping him is the real
deal.
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The idea i'm trying to give is that a lot of sistas out
ther thinks that all a man wants is to get between their legs.
Mind you majority does want to get ...
1 Comments,
347 Views,
11 Votes
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Choosing a prospective dominant 5/16/2005
There are several
questions you can ask of a potential dominant. The one thing
I want
you to bear in mind, however, is that just because you ask
a question
and receive an answer from a potential dom does not mean
they are
going to give you a truthful answer. In fact, the same is
true of a
dominant asking questions of a potential submissive/slave.
From past
experiences, where I ...
3 Comments,
1436 Views,
72 Votes
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SET YOUR HEARTS ON THINGS ABOVE 5/6/2005
“Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your
hearts on things above, where Christ is seated at the right
hand of God.” - Colossians 3:1
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SET YOUR HEARTS ON THINGS ABOVE
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Christians shouldn't be concerned with the 'things
of this world'. God has promised to fulfill all of our
needs. He has also commanded us to ...
3 Comments,
237 Views,
10 Votes
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New to all of this 5/6/2005
I am new to this whole lifestyle and while I do understand
most aspects I don't understand them all. This however
is not my biggest problem, my biggest problem is getting
started. I despartly need some help in getting more involved
(i.e. get toethers, meeting people, basically all aspects)
Can someone please point me in the right diredtion and give
me some pointers as well, it would be ...
3 Comments,
289 Views,
7 Votes
,5.08 Score
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appropriate punishment... 4/29/2005
Hey everyone I am asking all dom's and subs and switches
a question for advice... I am a switch and have recently
overdrawn my checking account by a little over a hundred
dollars. This is not the first time this has occured I have
over drawn my account several times in the past. I am asking
you all what would a appropriate punishment be for me..
Please be specific and tell all... Thank ...
3 Comments,
580 Views,
14 Votes
,0.26 Score
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how to get great profile pics? how to spice them up? 4/17/2005
Howdy,
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I was curious to know what the consensus was for pictures
for a profile? Besides the Cock shot (which is boring) what
would make for an interesting picture that would appeal
to people?
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Something unique, naughty and fun. I am trying to come up
with something a little different, other than the shots
of my face or body, something that looks fun, and is ...
1 Comments,
142 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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Any advice for how to meet someone for Online Play? 4/14/2005
In an earlier article several people posted that trying
out submission online might be just the thing for me due
to a lack of people in my location, and my complete lack of
experience in the area.
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I was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to go about
meeting someone who is interested in engaging in bdsm email
and message exchange so that I can try and get a taste of what ...
1 Comments,
222 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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Douche as birth control or "cleaning"? 4/14/2005
The National Women's Health Information Center,
a division of the Department of Health and Human Services,
tells us that to douche immediately following intercourse
will NOT prevent pregnancy, but could cause an ectopic
pregnancy.
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Most research shows that women who douche on a routine basis
tend to have more problems than women who do not douche or
who rarely douche. A ...
1 Comments,
329 Views,
8 Votes
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weak is the strenght 4/2/2005
there are the weak and there are the strong. yet many are
delussionized for to which is the one and which the other.
for many not to cry means being strong, yet it takes alot
of strenght just to get past the views of that very acceptance
and belief to be able to cry. its just so much easier to fight
it and just not do it and deny our selfs our emotions which
comes to a weaker point of then ...
0 Comments,
94 Views,
5 Votes
,4.77 Score
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Getting someone to reply 3/29/2005
I know that getting someone to reply is up to the person the
the messege was sent to but, even after trying for 3 years,
I still haven't gotten a favorable response. Any help
here.
0 Comments,
265 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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How to be safe at that first meeting 3/28/2005
Time and time again W/we are hearing of women being kidnapped,
and murdered, and unfortunately W/we are also hearing
of Doms who simply go too far, especially on that all important
first date. I've been involved in the D/s lifestyle
for over 25 years and have picked up a few tricks that may
help A/all on that all important first meeting to stay safe.
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a) ALWAYS - without ...
3 Comments,
213 Views,
11 Votes
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My fantasies scare me! What if I get too into SM? 3/28/2005
What if I get too into SM?
Sometimes people who are attracted by some aspects of SM
worry that they will immediately go from enjoying spanking
and light bondage to fisting and golden showers. Nothing
could be further from the truth.
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SM is a blanket term for a huge variety of alternative ways
to make love. This FAQ list has outlined some of the possibilities.
No one I know ...
1 Comments,
359 Views,
11 Votes
,4.10 Score
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Kinky.... With ! 3/22/2005
The joys of parenthood are many and well documented, so
are the trials and tribulations. As parents we struggle
through the seemingly endless nights of 2 am feedings,
the terrible twos, potty training, kindergarten, elementary
school and homework, the much dreaded adolescence (which
seems to increase the global sale of valium at a remarkable
rate) drivers licenses, graduation and college ...
2 Comments,
478 Views,
7 Votes
,5.33 Score
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Explaining my desire to be a submissive... in words even my mother could understand. 3/19/2005
Why would anyone want to be a submissive?
My mother is baffled by the thought. "I thought I raised
you better." She entered her adult life during the
woman's movement. My toys also frighten her. This
is how I explained my desires to her so she could possibly
understand.
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When I was dancing, I was a "slave" to my choreographer.
She worked me harder than I ever had. If my ...
2 Comments,
305 Views,
10 Votes
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