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plyphos 52 M
7 Articles
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Kama Sutra Positions - The deep one   11/24/2005

This is a position of total penetration, of there its name. With the high and opened legs, it waits to that his companion introduces the penis in his vagina to wear his legs in shoulders of him, who will support his hands to regulate the movement. To many women she can seem to them complicated, uncomfortable or painful the visualization of this position, but she is worth the trouble to ...


0 Comments, 350 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
Pussyz 62 C
1 Article
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Initiation of the uninitiated in the Asian world of B&D   11/18/2005

The experience I am about to set about telling you is a true experience that my Husband and I had after meeting someone through the Adultfriendfinder.com personals. Being an Asian, with quite a strict religious upbringing I had always had a rather shy attitude towards sex. In public I appeared very naive and innocent in my knowledge of 'worldly' desires. However once hidden away in the secret ...


0 Comments, 744 Views, 11 Votes ,6.16 Score
voyagar69 51 M
2 Articles
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Do most think BDSM is about haveing sex or not?   11/14/2005

Not clear on this myself I heard to sides what do you think. For me wanting to be someones Sub. I want to sexually pleasing to my Mistress and to anyone she want me to make happy. Also to do thing she orders me too do. Let me know I am really new to all of this thanks, Chris


3 Comments, 121 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
SexyLes4u 48,1948 LC
4 Articles
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Strap On with A Man   11/13/2005

I am in a lesbian relationship and my partner is a dom. She enjoys using her strap on with males. MY question is..Can a man enjoy anal and still be straight? Whats your opinion?


1 Comments, 93 Views, 57 Votes ,7.95 Score
a2m4u2me 55 M
10 Articles
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Ass to mouth experience anyone?   11/12/2005

Checking any porn engine, you can quickly check out the latest sex techniques. Anal appears to be virtually almost 100% mainstream now, but ass-to-mouth has emerged as the latest anal installment. Are you engaging in this? If so, what do you think? Compared to seeing it in videos, what's it like? What good about and bad about it that you wouldn't see in a video? Also, how ...


6 Comments, 456 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
a2m4u2me 55 M
10 Articles
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Women: your first anal experience?   11/11/2005

The usual response to asking a woman about her first anal experience is, "It was awful; I never wanted to do it ever again." It was with a guy who was so surprised she agreed, that he couldn't even concentrate on being careful. Truth is, he was just fumbling around and ripped her good. <br> <br> Some girls stuck to their guns and have refused every anal ...


4 Comments, 337 Views, 0 Votes
Bicouple1212 58 C
1 Article
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looking for information   11/11/2005

I am a 40 year old dominate female with a bi male slave. We are not 24/7 but he submits to my every whim sexually. I have had his cock pierced 7 times (though the head and down the shaft) and now I want to tattoo my name on it. Does anyone know of a place in Saskatchewan where I could have this done. Mistress C.


1 Comments, 327 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
bzeeb 61 M
1 Article
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How do you tell   11/1/2005

OK I joined this site because I noticed that where I work sometimes a few women liked to be strangely and inappropriately bossy and controlling towards me shortly after meeting me. I am often beside myself as to why-I can't see why anyone in my line of work would want to boss another around rather than mind their own business. It occured to me that maybe one or more of them might be into ...


3 Comments, 205 Views, 6 Votes
mrcleannow 58 M
3 Articles
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wanting to explore male feminizing to learn more   10/30/2005

I would like to learn more about how a women feminizes a man. I would like to chat with some more experienced ladies who do this to get a feel of what happens and how it all works. Anyone willing to help a newby out?


1 Comments, 211 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
a2m4u2me 55 M
10 Articles
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When are you on ALT...   10/24/2005

When are you usually on ALT? In the morning before work? At work? After work? Late at night? What's the best time you've found to be signed on and catch somebody?


2 Comments, 67 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Very_Curious1 60 F
1 Article
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spanking   10/11/2005

please...please could you advise me!!!! I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months now and i really am quite shy about asking him or getting him to spank me ( especially over the knee). He is quite the dominant partner in the bedroom but besides hitting my arse in play, like when i walk past him, he's never done anything more. Please don't just write back saying 'share your fantasy with ...


6 Comments, 323 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
Carl86 37 M
2 Articles
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Not interested?   10/11/2005

y name's Carl and I've got a question. <br> Why have the people I meat just interested in physical appearances? Is a beautiful body more important than the beauty of the mind? Has society gotten so out of control that all we think about how ugly we are and how me must improve upon ourselves? Or have we fallen so low that we no longer think that one's personality matters? ...


7 Comments, 172 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
a2m4u2me 55 M
10 Articles
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Oral nouveau...   10/4/2005

Judging by checking out any porn engine, deep-throat/throat-fucking/ cock-gagging has emerged as a newer technique. The featured article in the Adult FriendFinder Magazine is for Big Gulps, talking about this in porn, which claim started in 1997. How about your experiences? What's better or worse in practice as opposed to the edited world of porn we see? What are your ...


1 Comments, 175 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
BBW4Daddy 54 F
31 Articles
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Responsibilities on both parts   10/3/2005

The submissives creed <br> I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. I realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Master and I from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm. I will not try to manipulate my Master. I will not push to make a scene go the way I feel it should. I will ...


3 Comments, 664 Views, 46 Votes ,9.26 Score
artfulgeorge 41 M
1 Article
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Cyber's   9/12/2005

There is nothing worse than when you put time effort and dreams to waste in a person and they end up being all about cyber and not about the 'real' thing. <br> I met a very promising Domme on here last year. We talked on MSN, we exchanged e-mails and we spoke on the phone. She would send me pics and I would return pics too. <br> We organised a meeting, which she never ...


2 Comments, 83 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
sissygrlshaky 44 F
8 Articles
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Is he being spoiled or better humiliated   9/2/2005

I cant help but watch this slaveboy I live with sit in the best clothes a girl can have yet all he does is complain. My job is to make him the prettiest girl I can for mistress and I have done so very well. But is he getting spoiled when he doesn't like the $350 dollar satin dress with gloves and heels? This is something he didnt even have to pay for. His bondage is even made soft and ...


1 Comments, 331 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score
Bella34 70,1972 C
3 Articles
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Advice to Submissives and in particular, New Submissives   8/28/2005

Advice to submissives and especially new submissives By Bella34 Welcome to this page of advice. I will be addressing this page to mainly new submissives, which they will probably ignore - to their peril!!! You have just discovered your submissive nature and there is so much to explore - But most of all you really want to be dominated by your own Dom/me. The World It is a big bad ...


0 Comments, 101 Views, 55 Votes ,8.97 Score
Tallone4512 62 M
1 Article
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Girl friend does not want to have sex   8/28/2005

I have been seeing her for over two years. I am 50 she is two years younger. Up until a year ago the sex was the best I have ever had. She had trouble with alcohol and has stopped for a year, she is also going through menopause. She does not want to have sex, there is no passion, she often seems very far away. I have the feeling that she is "using me"....I have tried to talk to her about ...


0 Comments, 51 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
masternslutsub 68 C
26 Articles
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TRUST   8/28/2005

Once you have given ur all to someone and ur 100% trust witch takes some doing when u have had it battered in the past. When they give ur trust a kick how do u cope? Do u ever get it back as it was? Wot can u do to try and put it back?


0 Comments, 48 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
slaveseeker61 62 M
2 Articles
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The local BD/SM community   8/27/2005

I'm new to the ALT lifestyle and I have a question that I want to direct to members from Minnesota. Is there a BD/SM community in either the twin cities or Duluth? I am interested in joining and either location would be good as I live about half way between both.


0 Comments, 79 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
jillyshub 57 T
6 Articles
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Special Interest Groups   8/3/2005

I have just started an special interest Group called "Playing in Panties" and was wondering if anyone who has been a member for a while could help or advise me on how I can publicise it? <br> As with all things, the more well known it is, the more activity it generates. What I don't want is to annoy people who aren't interested in this area. <br> Any advice / tips ...


3 Comments, 141 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
iomroir 51 F
2 Articles
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tease and denial   8/3/2005

The knowledge that we are arousing another is deeply powerful (if also intrinsically suspending of disbelief, as it is in one's own mind that arousal actually takes place). By telling your lover, when she is touching you with the intention of turning you on, that she is succeeding *so* much that you are close to losing control...is to compliment her enormously and thus no doubt to very much ...


2 Comments, 455 Views, 18 Votes ,6.67 Score
mikeswu3 60 M
10 Articles
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Seeking Advice on BJs   7/30/2005

I like most men enjoy the sensation of a warm, wet 96degree mouth on my most sentative piece of anatomy. <br> I am not able to have my partner perform this act. <br> Is this something you like or don't like to do? Is there any way of changing a partner's interest in sucking...? I need some good advice on this!


1 Comments, 159 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
aquanut6969 49 M
1 Article
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Am I too far out?   7/29/2005

I often wonder if I'm too far out, even for the 'alternative lifestyle' group. My fetish has to do with very long hair on lovely women, in and underwater. I can only get enthusiastic if a woman a.has gorgeous very long hair, b: is willing to play in and underwater, and c; enjoys it like I do, rather than just putting up with it. Hair color doesn't really play a big part of this fantasy, or ...


1 Comments, 147 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
your_kinky_slave 55 M
4 Articles
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Please give me an advice   7/20/2005

I`m a male slave. I love to be humiliated and most of all i like to be sodomized by females Mistress with strapon. The thing is that i realised that they get more satisfactiuon from doing this when the strapon is bigger and bigger. I`m 35 years old, but do you think that after some years i will have problems with my rectum ?


5 Comments, 500 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
midnytesflower 57 F
1 Article
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24/7 - Why are there so many different view points?   7/19/2005

Why do so many have altering view points about a 24/7 relationship? Some believe that one has to be in Dominant mode and Submissve mode all the time and if they don't, feel that that are not part of the lifestyle. Yet others feel that it is not necessary to feel this way all time as we are human and cannot always be in this mode. <br> I am finding that alot of people believe ...


1 Comments, 31 Views, 12 Votes ,5.80 Score
tk9616 40 M
2 Articles
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Is submitting online any fun?   7/12/2005

I think there might have been a similar topic at one point but I don't think it ever addressed the feelings of it. <br> I was just curious as to whether or submitting via email or instant messaging was a fun way to explore the feeling of submitting to another person. I have personally never felt cyber sex was any better then being alone due to the lack of intimacy, but I could ...


5 Comments, 301 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
gentlerain44 64 F
2 Articles
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Safety   7/5/2005

Rule 1 -Public Meetings | Rule 2- tell a friend | Rule 3 - First scenes | Rule 4 Safety checks | Rule 5 Silent alarms | Rule 6 - Home free call <br> Class 1- IM's | Phone calls | Class 2 First meets | Safe Calls | First Scenes | Safe Word | Safe Sex | Emotional Safety | Heed warnings of others <br> This is part of a comprehensive training program for Submissives and ...


1 Comments, 206 Views, 12 Votes ,6.33 Score
cdukcd 45 T
2 Articles
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How do you tell your girlfriend that you are a crossdresser?   7/3/2005

I told my first grilfriend straight out.... She went a running and along with the running came a lot of gossip and alot of flack which i obviously denided and said that "i was only joking i only wanted to see what she would say" <br> I left this for some time and never told any other for quite some time as i didnt want to go through this again. Anyway i ended up moving in with a ...


4 Comments, 488 Views, 20 Votes ,4.53 Score
behavenow2 53 F
3 Articles
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what is normal   7/2/2005

What is normal what in the world today descibes normal and what makes somone srange I mean with everything today I thing everyone is so out there there is no line anymore


4 Comments, 158 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score